What is the 50/30/20 rule for weddings?
The 50/30/20 rule is a modern budgeting method brides and grooms are using to organize their wedding expenses in a simple, balanced way. Here’s how it breaks down:
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50% of the budget goes toward the venue, food, and drinks — essentially the reception experience.
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30% is allocated to attire, photography, entertainment, flowers, and décor — the elements that shape the overall vibe and aesthetic.
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*20% covers everything else, including invitations, transportation, favors, marriage license, and the honeymoon (if you're including that in the overall budget).
This rule was inspired by personal finance strategies used in everyday budgeting (typically for needs/wants/savings) and has been adapted for wedding planning to help couples feel more in control of spending.
Does the 50/30/20 rule work for all weddings?
It depends on your wedding style, location, and guest count. For many couples planning a traditional event with 75–150 guests, this breakdown offers a solid starting point. However, the 50/30/20 framework may not work as well if you’re planning:
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A destination wedding, where travel and accommodations take up more of your budget
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An elopement or intimate micro-wedding, where venue and catering may be a much smaller percentage
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A DIY-heavy event, where décor and florals are handled personally or with help from friends
Still, many wedding planners recommend starting with this rule because it simplifies the process. From there, couples can tweak based on their priorities.
What should you include in each wedding budget category?
To make the 50/30/20 rule work for your event, it helps to know what falls under each category.
50% – Venue, Catering, and Rentals
This category includes:
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Ceremony and reception venue fees
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Catering (including staff and gratuities)
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Bar packages or alcohol costs
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Table, chair, and linen rentals
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Service fees, taxes, and insurance (often overlooked)
30% – Fashion, Beauty, and Atmosphere
This portion covers:
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Wedding dress, suit or tux, and accessories
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Hair and makeup services
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Photographer and/or videographer
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Live band or DJ
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Floral arrangements
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Décor and design elements
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Lighting and ambiance
20% – Extras, Admin, and Everything Else
This includes:
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Invitations and postage
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Marriage license
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Officiant fee
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Transportation
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Favors or welcome gifts
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Tips and emergency funds
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Honeymoon, if it's part of your wedding budget
By sorting your spending into these buckets, you can avoid budget creep and make sure you're investing in the areas that matter most to you.
How much does the average couple spend on a wedding?
According to recent U.S. wedding industry data, the average wedding costs around $30,000, but this varies widely by region. In some cities, the average climbs closer to $50,000, while smaller towns or rural locations may see weddings under $15,000.
What’s helpful about the 50/30/20 rule is that it scales. Whether you're working with a $10,000 or $100,000 budget, the percentages stay the same—letting you plan with confidence, regardless of your total.
Here’s an example breakdown using a $30,000 wedding:
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$15,000 for venue, food, and drinks
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$9,000 for attire, photos, music, and décor
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$6,000 for everything else
When to bend the rule: Personalizing your budget
Your wedding should reflect your values and priorities. So, if food isn’t a huge focus for you but having your dream photographer is, it’s okay to redistribute your budget.
Many couples modify the rule like this:
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40% venue + catering
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40% attire, photo/video, flowers, music
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20% everything else
Others may flip the priorities if they’re hosting a backyard wedding and spending more on design and entertainment.
Tip: Choose your top three priorities early in the planning process. That way, you’ll know where to invest more and where to trim.
What do brides worry about the most with budgeting?
Budget stress is one of the most common pre-wedding anxieties. Some of the top concerns include:
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Overspending on hidden costs (like taxes, tips, and last-minute rentals)
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Guest list bloat, which increases food, venue, and invitation expenses
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Not having a cushion for emergencies or last-minute changes
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Regret spending — putting too much into one area and neglecting another
To reduce the stress, consider using wedding budget tools or working with a wedding planner who can help track expenses and negotiate better rates.
How Paris House of Bridal Helps You Budget Smarter
While the 50/30/20 rule is a helpful planning tool, the real magic happens when you align your wedding budget with your unique style. At Paris House of Bridal, we believe every bride deserves to feel confident—not just in her dress, but in her entire celebration. Our experienced bridal consultants help you find the perfect gown that fits your vision and your financial plan. Whether you’re shopping high-end couture or something stunning and affordable, we’re here to make it happen.
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